bullies to my son

[scottishwee35]

My son got bullies at the Club today. I am very :mad2:

Club explained to my husband that they wrote a letter to 3 children's parent today

My son came home and sob sob, slam the door and 'tell me leave me alone'.

So I leave him alone then I was ready to go to work and i managed to talking him and he don't want to go back to club:(

He told me that one of them is at same school at him.:angry:

I feel so low today as I had a bad day today:( :nonono:

I am sick of it and I feel like to shake the children who bullies to my son . But I cannot do that!!

(My son have the dyparaxia problems.)

My son is so quiet boy and well behave.

What I do ? :cry: Sorry I need to get out of my chest!!:nonono:

Scottishwee35

[SusieK]

Sorry to hear about your son. Can you not speak to the people who run the club? Let them know what is going on? Hope everything turns out ok for your DS.

[Sean_and_Sue]

{{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}} Deborah - this is a horrible situation to be in - as you know, my DS is dyspraxic too, and there does seem to be something about kids with this problem that attracts the bullies:( I think its partly the fact that they so often have quite low self esteem, coupled with the difficulties they have in being abe to understand some social skills and read the reactions of those around them correctly:(

My DS has had a fair bit of help in this area from the childrens occupational therapy department at our local hospital - can your GP or your sons school get a referral for your DS, to get some OT? Ben has done a few courses with them - a living skills course, where amongst other things there was a section on handling being bullied. He also got a place on an 'introduction to high school' course, during the summer hols, which also covered this subject. It isn't a magic cure all, but its equipped him with some idea of how to react and defuse any potential bullying, and increased his confidence in dealing with it.

I hope you are able to get some support for you DS over this - its one of the worse things for a parent to deal with, seeing our kids bullied:(

Love Suexx

[Helen uk]

Sorry to read that,my eldest now 20 has dyspraxia and he has also suffered bullying.
We got to the point where we told him just to ignore them and hope it stopped.
Eventually it did but it was hard for us and even harder for him as he didnt want to go out and used to stay in all the time.
When we used to go to school they used to say no problems hes a lovely boy etc but when you say hes being bullied it was we will sort it out.
By that if anyone says anything tell the teacher,but this made it worse a few times as the culprids were there.
Hope everything gets sorted soon.Good luck and tell your son not to worry to much.