[scottishnellie]

Totally depends on the children. My daughter turns 16 next month and I will then happily leave her at home overnight for a night or 2 looking after her 11 year old brother if we decide to go away.

She is VERY sensible, practical and down to earth, and my 11 year old know if she’s left in charge then she is the boss. My parents are 2 minutes away if they need them.

On the flip side I have friends with 19 year olds that I wouldn’t trust,

Absolutely your call. And don’t let what others might think change your mind. You know your own kids.