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Originally Posted by novocastrian

a tad harsh as the OP says its her daughter who wont go if her boyfriend cant join her, no suggestion its him saying dont go if I cant come

although i agree 3 months is nothing maybe a holiday together 1/2 way through

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Thank you and spot on. He’s happy for her to go but she thought it would be a good experience for them both before settling down. Was just looking at options. Thanks to those who gave some sound info on what I thought the situ would be for the US.