[djewkes]

For many years I didn’t know where my baby sons grave was (long story) and after 30 years another family tragedy spurred me into finding it and getting a memorial, the day it was up I visited and put a lovely flower arrangement, my daughter visited the next day and it was gone... the first flowers my baby had in 30 years and some scum nicked them... everything since then I’ve taken wire or string and tied down... and that’s been enough to deter them...