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Originally Posted by DisneyDaffodil

I think you know your husband best. I also think you have realised that he found Disney too full on last time, so you are planning a different trip this time. Plus your DH is happy for you to go without him so you would lose very little if he really doesn’t want to go. Hopefully he will

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I hope he does too, we don't "do" co-dependence, we just enjoy each other's company.
The last trip really was too full on , September was just too hot and crowded as we had three generations together at the parks. Whilst I loved the grandkids reactions (the four year old meeting the princesses was the cutest thing ever ) it was too much trying to please everyone . AK and TL apart he really wasn't that impressed with Disney although he loved the BWI (as did I , the location of the Y&B but a better service level IMO) but overall we prefer a villa with our own pool.

The budget is more or less complete now I'll post it below.

Thanks for "getting" the true dynamic of this trip