[mandco]

thanks for the replies

He not sleeping very well not that he ever does but its worse than usual and that is probably having a knock on effect as I know I'm knackered and more grumpy than usual too. School aren't helping as he usually manages to keep it all in at school and then meltdowns at home so they don't often see him acting out and feel that he's coping ok because he is not disruptive at school like most of the other autistic children they have