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28 Sep 20, 04:43 PM |
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Imagineer
Join Date: Apr 14
Location: Yorkshire
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I really feel for you. My son has autism and it is hard work. My older children seemed to miss out on my time all the time.
What you have described sounds like PDA - have you joined any groups for parents of ASD/PDA children? I would try some of the strategies despite not having that diagnosis to see if it helps. Lots of the violence associated with PDA comes from extreme anxiety. |
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28 Sep 20, 04:47 PM |
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Imagineer
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Is there a possibility of not sending him to school? They may take action if he is permanently absent?
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28 Sep 20, 04:47 PM |
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VIP Dibber
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Hi Sammi
Have sent you a DM. Some great advice on this thread... please know there is lots of support here and keep fighting for the best help for you and your family. Take care |
28 Sep 20, 04:53 PM |
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Serious Dibber
Join Date: May 18
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This all sounds so familiar. My nephew is autistic and went through all of the same behaviour and it was awful. No one was interested and basically my SIL was having a nervous breakdown. One day she went to the gp and said if they didn’t help she would bring my nephew to the practice and go and end herself. Only at that stage did they take any notice.
I’m not suggesting anything so extreme but please take videos, diary etc and then keep at your gp, son’s school etc. Don’t be strong in front of them be brutally honest. Only when they see you are at the end of your tether will they take any notice. Also as someone else suggested try and find other parents in the same situation to you who can give you the support you need. Good luck x |
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28 Sep 20, 05:00 PM |
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Imagineer
Join Date: Aug 06
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Sent you a pm,suffice to say I have an idea how this feels
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28 Sep 20, 05:10 PM |
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I’m so sorry this is happening for you & your family, does your son go to a special needs school, not just a school with one to one, I take 2 autistic children to special school 9 & 10, the 9 year old girl is quite violent biting & hitting me & the parents, who are constantly fighting to get respite care to give them a break, is this available to you ?
Usually kids seem to like school as there is so much going on to keep them occupied, has he always not liked school or is it just recently. The girl I have also has ADHD, is this something that your son might have, if it was me I’d try & get as much help as possible through the school, council & Autistic charity Have you a social worker too Good luck 😘😘xxx |
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28 Sep 20, 05:31 PM |
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I'm so sorry your going through this ... it sounds very much like hes certainly in the wrong setting for schools and they cant meet his needs .Because he's so unhappy sadly its having an impact on his behaviour elsewhere... I had this with my so ,who's also ASD .Have you looked into getting a social worker ? ...I know in tje past there's been horror stories about them ,but when it comes to support with disabilities they are really useful in advising and getting help for both you and your son. No one should have to put up with violence even from our own children ,hes clearly communicating some kind of either need ? Or frustration over something ... look on Facebook theres lots of supports groups for ASD offering lots of coping strategies tjat ive found useful in the past...
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28 Sep 20, 05:34 PM |
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Also in absolute times of crisis they advice A&E so he can been assessed by the out if hours team who could hopefully put you in touch with more support ...
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28 Sep 20, 05:46 PM |
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VIP Dibber
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Hi Sammi. I’m going to pm you. Xxx
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28 Sep 20, 06:56 PM |
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Relaxing at the Grand Floridian
Join Date: Sep 17
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This is so sad,how awful to wake up with your stomach churning at the thought of facing your child
I have no real advise but could you have cameras installed in your home to record your day,so professionals can see how he is at home it may help his treatment but they may be able to point you in the right direction in how to handle a situation so it doesnt escalate,even you watching them back on your own later may show you flash points that in the heat of the situation you have missed |
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