Devastated

[Melbatb]

More positive thoughts from me.

[Orlando21]

Originally Posted by Sally42

Oh sweetheart you must be absolutely reeling from this devastating news.
It’s going to be a total roller coaster and is so scary not only for your DH, but all the family. Tempers fray, tears are sobbed, but if I can offer any advice at all it’s this - keep talking. When I was diagnosed with cancer earlier this year, It was all consuming. It took a while to sink in that my DH was suffering as much as me. We cried, we laughed, we sat and just held hands for hours on end. He was my rock - and still is.
It natural that roles are reversed, in that your DH won’t feel the ‘Protector’ and this in itself will be upsetting.
But talk. Take time to be kind to yourselves. Accept help when offered. Take deep breaths.
Keep talking to us too. We will always be here with a virtual hug or hand hold.
I’m in remission but my surveillance will be for my lifetime. But that’s ok.
I’m sending you all my love and positivity x x x

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Thank you for your words. Sometimes it’s just good to know I’m not the only person going through this nightmare. All my love to you and your family ♥️

[Orlando21]

Originally Posted by evergreen

Sending love and post thoughts to you all, good luck to your DH with his treatment, my DB has his transplant 34 years ago my other DB was his donar he is fit & well x

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Thank you!. He has a sister who we are praying will be a suitable donor

[Taffy1959]

I'm so sorry to hear your news and hope your husbands treatment goes well xxx

[Loopylooloo]

Woke up to this post, and feel awful for you all, what a shock, thank heaven you sound like such a close knit supportive family, and of course you have all of us here anytime you need to ‘vent’. Sending lots of positive vibes your way x

[Baggie Bird]

So sorry to hear your news. Wishing your husband all the best with his treatment. A long road ahead but we are all here to listen when times are hard. Thinking of you all and sending positive thoughts xx

[Bootrip2]

So sorry for your family, it will be a long road ahead, so many inspiring stories on this thread. A huge hug to the whole family. X

[EssexSue]

So sorry to read another of our dibb family fighting this awful disease.
Stay strong and hopefully you will soon be rebooking your holiday with something extra to celebrate. X

[florida girl]

So sorry to hear your news thoughts and well wishes are with you ❤️

[Guest]

So sorry to read your news,I hope reading the success stories has given you some comfort. Good luck to your husband with his treatment,take care of you too xx