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29 Dec 16, 07:34 PM |
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Good luck. Enjoy your DH's birthday whatever you decide to do. It's horrible when we're at odds with our children. I hope all goes well.
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29 Dec 16, 07:34 PM |
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29 Dec 16, 07:35 PM |
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Oh my. To be honest, he doesn't sound like the sort of person I'd want in my life. However. He's your son.
Do you get on With your DIL at all, or could she been the root problem? |
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29 Dec 16, 07:36 PM |
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I did read earlier but didn't have any advice, but now you've updated I wanted to wish you good luck x
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29 Dec 16, 07:50 PM |
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Hi,
No advice, just warm wishes. Its awful when those that *should* be the closest to us are the ones who hurt and mistreat us for whatever reason and in whatever way. Have a great New Year celebration and fingers crossed one day your DS will realise what a rude idiot he is being. |
29 Dec 16, 07:55 PM |
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Exactly - you cant parent by the book can you? We all do the best job we can do!
Thank you He has definately got worse - i.e. more up him self! I dont think she had more than 1 glass of wine all the time we were in cornwall. Now I dont drink much in the year as I train most days but at Xmas I do like to have a few drinks... especially on Xmas day when the champers gets opened at breakfast! I cant see him doing the dairy/gluten free stuff of his own accord - his favourite meal used to be home made lasagne which even if I do say so myself is delicious. I took some to Cornwall with us to save my sister cooking - they both had the tiniest pieces youve ever seen! She moans about her mother drinking too much etc. Part of me thinks it was all a big party when he used to go out to camp and then for holidays (flights paid for by me!) but now he's married its a whole different ball game! Thank you - also seen your countdown - not jealous much AMI is my favourite place in the whole world! Katie x |
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29 Dec 16, 07:59 PM |
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^^^^ this^^^^^^
Very sad for you as I'm sure you don't want to upset him because he lives away,but he needs a talking to and I would but that in the hands of your DH
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29 Dec 16, 08:02 PM |
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Katie
Really sorry to hear what you are going through. I agree with the poster that giving advice as a non parent is easy. Wait till they have kids of their own. He criticises you for not contacting him, although it appears that you have. Has he made an effort to contact you as communication is a 2 way street? The only thing that perhaps could have been done from an outsider's perspective is drop him an email when you were intending to give the guitars away. This is not meant to be a criticism of you, just an observation. I dont think that you have a duty to be the curator of all of his 'unwanted' belongings forever like some free storage facility. I agree with others that you need to express your concerns back to him, otherwise he may never learn. I hope things work out for you and your family. Take care
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29 Dec 16, 08:12 PM |
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I have a family member with a similar situation. It has caused all sorts of upset, this person who sounds very similar to your son cannot be reasoned with and I think actually enjoys all the conflict as it gives them an opportunity to play the victim. As much as I think you need to be honest with him, I also think he is desperate to be the hurt victim in this situation. Perhaps it would be best to just ignore his silliness, carry on the best you can and give no ammuniation for him to use. Invite him over for dinner, keep it on your terms and have a lovely time regardless of his rubbish. Not sure a big show down will improve the situation in my opinion.
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29 Dec 16, 08:46 PM |
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Maybe I'm a softie but I would hate to part on a sour note then have my only son return to America. It sounds as though he is under his wifes thumb, she probably pulls his strings. I would probably bow out of the meal but I would offer to buy another guitar and hopefully part under better circumstances.
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