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22 Jul 21, 09:48 PM |
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It sounds like you need to speak to someone who can give you the advice you need. Make no firm decisions until this has happened. As much as you want it over now this minute, it will take time and your choices and actions can have massive impacts further down the line. Solicitors give 30 mins free advice ... use that and cab ... before you act.
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22 Jul 21, 09:49 PM |
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22 Jul 21, 09:55 PM |
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22 Jul 21, 10:00 PM |
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22 Jul 21, 10:04 PM |
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Please dont do that. I understand how you feel, my ex was 50k in debt when he left... by the time the divorce came through he was 85k in debt and climbing, all his own credit cards and loans to consolodate debts he ran up. I had a £50 overdraft... while giving nothing for the kids. I still got three quarters of the house value for me and the kids and it gave us a new start. Worth every second of the hideous three years it took to get from a to z. I did it so I could do my best for the kids. I worked 12 hrs a week at the time. Obviously I dont know your circumstances, but you said he wants this? Why give him everything on a plate and be left with nothing? Please get advice x
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22 Jul 21, 10:05 PM |
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22 Jul 21, 10:07 PM |
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Definitely get advice. I don’t know a lot about benefits but I’m pretty sure if you work 16 hours you will qualify for a reasonable amount that should put you in a better situation than you might expect.
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22 Jul 21, 10:20 PM |
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Please do not make any rash decisions. Get some advice and find out what you are entitled too. Do not just hand everything to him and walk away. There are other options.
This is raw for you and you are hurting so take some time to think and plan. Why would you consider leaving the children with him? It’s just a house, bricks and mortar. A home is where the family are and is what you make it. Please get some advice both legal and practical before you agree to anything.
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22 Jul 21, 10:23 PM |
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22 Jul 21, 10:29 PM |
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It is a better life here for them rather than with me who will be on benefits. That’s just a fact.
So the week he’s on nights they will be wherever I am, when he’s on days he will have them and when he’s on afters I will put them to bed here and leave when he gets back. That will be the least disruptive |
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