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13 Mar 21, 10:51 PM |
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It is a little difficult when he has spent the last twenty-four hours explaining to every woman why the problem of sexual harassment is not that bad, then taking umbrage his assumptions are challenged and claiming to be bullied.
When the discussion is about the safety of women on our streets, and a man says he believes the statistics, but not the women behind the statistics, it is difficult to accept his latest assertion that he does not intend to offend. Thankfully the majority of the male posters have understood the issue and are willing to stand up with women to help make all our lives safer. Edited at 11:01 PM. |
13 Mar 21, 10:57 PM |
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Just home from a run with a friend where we were both screamed at by a group of teenage lads. Didn't react which is obviously what they wanted.
But running down the canal the other day we stopped to one side to let a group of teenage lads go past on their bikes, they stopped to fix a chain and we past them and had to stop again once they got going, they apologised for making us stop which I thought was so sweet It actually surprised me more of the boys politeness than the other boys screaming. Sad times.
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13 Mar 21, 11:04 PM |
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Hi,
Can we please try and return this thread back to the original question from the OP as quoted below, otherwise it will just run in circles with no focus on the pertinent points. It is so easy for topics such as this to easily get off track. This is such an important topic that it deserves to be discussed without losing focus. Thanks..
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”Change the way you look at things & the things you look at change” Edited at 11:47 PM. |
13 Mar 21, 11:15 PM |
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Join Date: Jan 09
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Personally I do find it scary to walk at night.
When out with friends (before lockdown!) we used to be cautious at the point of separating to go to our respective homes. After work meetings that went into the evening, yes, it did feel uncomfortable. Getting late trains would involve me walking on to find carriages with lots of people in them. And yes this isn't great - I'm a mum of a son and of Course I get that the majority - the vast majority - of men are fine and normal. But I've experienced harassment from strangers - over many years and in many settings - that has left me feeling vulnerable and uncomfortable - mostly men. That's not to say of course that women don't pose a threat too at times, but the conversation right now is about men. And, earlier in this thread I mentioned that one of my secondary school friends went missing - and remains so. What i didn't mention is that a girl in the year above me at school reached National headlines when she was murdered - randomly - in broad daylight..apparently by a man. So in answer to the original post, yes, walking alone - for me - is concerning, particularly at night. All I can suggest is that this concern is recognised and I would ask men (and groups) to be aware of it: don't walk behind women too closely, cross over if approaching and be vigilant in case your assistance in helping a women is required - not that it is in any way expected
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13 Mar 21, 11:48 PM |
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Join Date: Mar 16
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I'm disappointed to find this thread is.having posts removed.
I've checked the T&CS and don't believe I've breached any. I'm supporting everyone having an opinion. I don't want people generalising. I'm female and have been a victim and IMO a valid voice as any other. Just because people have a different outlook doesn't make them right/wrong. I want to encourage open conversation as that's the only way people challenge and change their own outlook. |
13 Mar 21, 11:51 PM |
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VIP Dibber
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My post was removed from the other thread and it was only a point of clarification so I can't see how that was controversial.
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13 Mar 21, 11:56 PM |
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The OP is encouraging a necessary debate unfortunately voices have not been heard tonight and female opinions that were requested have been silenced by men. Denying women the chance to respond to the central issues is dangerous and the patriarchy is real folks.
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13 Mar 21, 11:59 PM |
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Apprentice Imagineer
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Can we politely ask that the discussion remain in tact if not breaking policy as bias and censorship are the debate and the OPs request - it’s about a unique female perspective so please leave those voices untouched out of respect
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14 Mar 21, 12:01 AM |
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What is going on with the posts disappearing? I’ve seen plenty worse staying. Nobody’s been called names or insulted . Some women have been brave enough to share experiences. Which is a terrific thing. We have only tried to get across the impact that abuse of a sexual nature has had and continues to have. Stu please be more specific why these posts about crimes are being deleted.
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14 Mar 21, 12:02 AM |
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Getting back on track
Another thing men can do is accept that there may be some unconscious bias when curating female thoughts. No one enjoys self criticism, no one enjoys their ‘kind’ being criticised and accused of horrors - we need to move past that and consider how unaware males may be to this issue and learn without silencing the voices that make you uncomfortable Edited at 12:07 AM. |
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