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29 Oct 21, 03:27 PM |
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29 Oct 21, 03:31 PM |
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I left home at 730am yesterday and got back at 9pm, how do you suggest my bladder holds that long? I'm 42 years of age and have had a child, I would be lucky to hold it 10 mins!
I never once said I would encourage my daughter to be rude to an adult because like you I believe children should show respect, however, respect should be earned and 2 adult women being verbally aggressive to a 13 year old child is not showing any form of respect and if they had a problem they should have spoken to me and I would have put them right in a polite but firm way. The purpose of my post was more around people assuming someone's gender by the way they look, dress and act. Just because she's not standing in a pink frilly dress with bows in her hair the assumption straight away is she's a boy and whatever way you look at it and whether you are young or old and this is not right. |
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29 Oct 21, 03:31 PM |
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29 Oct 21, 03:38 PM |
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Such a shame for your daughter op. I have no issue at all about any child of any age being in either male or female bathrooms. We are quite prudish as a nation really, I think. When I was 14 I went to France with the school on holiday and we went in to a little cafe, I needed the loo, popped in and it was for both sexes. I walked out again quickly, but was told, that’s how it is in France. There were men using the urinal, I didn’t look their way and waited for the cubicle, no problems at all. I certainly can’t see any issue in a teenage boy being in a ladies loo, as there are cubicles, so really, what’s to see? DS school also has mixed loos and I have no problem with it, they even have one set which are “open” so you can see the cubicles from the corridor, again used by all with no problems, as it should be. Why do some people think it’s ok to comment on things which are not their business? I’m 54 and I’ll use a men’s loo if it’s empty and the ladies are queued out the door.
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29 Oct 21, 03:39 PM |
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This is what we have at work and it’s great. 6 or so cubicles with lockable doors, washbasin and dryer in the cubicle.
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29 Oct 21, 03:51 PM |
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Not accused but my DD shaved pretty much all her hair off when she was 9. People mainly children used to literally stare at her. She wasn't bothered though as I think she secretly liked them wondering what sex she was. Both my middle girls are tomboy, one owns no female clothes at all but never been challenged in toilets.
I think it's super disrespectful but then I think people seem to be at their worst when it comes to toilets.
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29 Oct 21, 03:52 PM |
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Actually alot of schools now have mixed toilets. The secondary school here does.
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29 Oct 21, 03:53 PM |
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When I went to Brussels it was quite an eye opener as they have urinals just out on the street. Totally normal to them but was quite a surprise to me 😆
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29 Oct 21, 03:53 PM |
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And what about those that cant hold it in till they get somewhere more convenient ? And yes its great your children have been taught about stranger danger , and keeping themselves safe as are most children , Unfortunately that’s not always enough to keep a child safe . What’s my husband supposed to do if he’s out with our granddaughter’s on his own ? Doesn’t bother me in the slights if a boy is in the female toilets waiting for whoever he’s with. Same for a girl in the mens.. Child safety is the important thing . |
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29 Oct 21, 04:06 PM |
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Nope Im afraid I wouldn't be working there. I work in a school and it's all single sex toilets for staff and children. And if I knew this were the case in a school I would be sending my children to, I'm afraid they wouldn't be attending.
If its law that brothers and sisters cannot share a bedroom after a certain age, the they shouldn't be integrating toilets. That's why everyone now demands new houses from councils etc... because their children need separate rooms. Again. Each to their own, but most definitely not for me or my family. |
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