What are you plans for 2020?

[DisneyDaffodil]

Originally Posted by vampiress88

I forgot to add I also have jimmy Carr to go see. I would tell you when but I actually cannot remember. Gonna guess September? I don’t know.

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I forgot that we have lots of stage shows booked for 2020 too. We start on 4 January when we go to see Les Miserables as it’s our 34th Wedding Anniversary that day

[duchy]

Originally Posted by DisneyDaffodil

This is the problem for you and I, because we always agree and go along with everyone, once we do disagree they get surprised at us and annoyed 😔 As we are people pleasers, we then get upset as we’ve caused the disagreement. This is why I usually just agree, but I’m going to try to be more assertive

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The trick is to say no ... and then move onto a different topic.
Keep it simple “No I’m afraid I already have plans” not a long explanation as to why you can’t .
Don’t be apologetic , you don’t have to apologise for saying No

[florida girl]

Go on more holidays 😊😊 .

Booked for DLP, Venice, Greece next year hope to fit a few more in .

[DisneyDaffodil]

Originally Posted by duchy

The trick is to say no ... and then move onto a different topic.
Keep it simple “No I’m afraid I already have plans” not a long explanation as to why you can’t .
Don’t be apologetic , you don’t have to apologise for saying No

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You know me well 😂 This is exactly what I do wrong. I explain why I can’t do something and apologise over and over, which then leads to me feeling terrible and saying ‘oh ok then, I will give it a try!’ Even though I really am too busy, or simply don’t want to say yes 😢

[Prospect1]

Looking forward to getting back to playing league bowls after missing a season and a half with aggressive Prostate cancer. Having now been given the all clear I can’t wait.

[Pieces]

My main plans for 2020 are to find a better job, one that doesn’t pay peanuts and that I don’t have to work my fingers to the bone for min wage for.
Had a lot of bad luck this year being made redundant etc so it’s been a tough one for me and I’ve felt quite down which is unusual for me.

I also need to tackle credit debt, it has got quite hard to deal with and leaves me struggling every month (partly due to the rough year I’ve had).
Thinking of doing a DMP to get it sorted once and for all.

Onwards and upwards hopefully.

[DisneyDaffodil]

Originally Posted by Pieces

My main plans for 2020 are to find a better job, one that doesn’t pay peanuts and that I don’t have to work my fingers to the bone for min wage for.
Had a lot of bad luck this year being made redundant etc so it’s been a tough one for me and I’ve felt quite down which is unusual for me.

I also need to tackle credit debt, it has got quite hard to deal with and leaves me struggling every month (partly due to the rough year I’ve had).
Thinking of doing a DMP to get it sorted once and for all.

Onwards and upwards hopefully.

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Sensible new year resolution. I volunteer at CAB and see a lot of people who need help with debts. If you need free help setting up a DMP, or any advice on debts, CAB would be able to provide you with a case worker who can write to your creditors, set up DMP and help with budgeting. If there is no CAB locally, this can also be provided by other charities free of charge such as Stepchange. Good luck

[Hula Doola]

Wdw in May
Lose weight and get fitter before May (and after trip when I've put all weight back on again!)
Get a large porch/boot room designed and built on back of house.
Spend fewer evenings watching TV and replace with something more fulfilling.

Feeling confident about the first one as it's all booked... Need to find some motivation for the others!

[Sandra & co]

Lose weight and get an amazing outfit for my sons wedding, stop stressing about going away with family who I would never normally go away with! Do something different next Christmas!

[lottiesmum0]

My plans are
- to enjoy my 2 Florida holidays
- to lose weight for them!
- to exercise more
- to stop worrying what people think of me
- to be more organised
- to worry less
- to manage my money better and use it more wisely