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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:22 PM  
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I just realised the other day that I have no one in my life. I have my children and husband but I have no friends.

What a sad state to get to 38 and have no one to pick up the phone and have a chat with.
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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:24 PM  
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I think sometimes when your a busy mum and wife you kind of forget about yourself i only have a few good friends

your welcome to pm me and ill happily chat i love to talk lol

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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:24 PM  
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Originally Posted by Minnie18 View Post
I just realised the other day that I have no one in my life. I have my children and husband but I have no friends.

What a sad state to get to 38 and have no one to pick up the phone and have a chat with.
Hugs xx feel free to pm me!
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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:26 PM  
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You have us Minnie 😀 . I don’t have a lot of friends in the ‘real’ world either but I’m happy with my own company and my family a lot of the time. I’ve never been someone who needs lots of friends and socialising.
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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:35 PM  
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Don’t worry I am the exact same. I have my DH, 2 boys and that is it! No friends or family and you know what I’m pretty happy really. Always liked my own company!
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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:35 PM  
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Originally Posted by DisneyDaffodil View Post
You have us Minnie 😀 . I don’t have a lot of friends in the ‘real’ world either but I’m happy with my own company and my family a lot of the time. I’ve never been someone who needs lots of friends and socialising.
This. I don’t really have many friends and never really have, due to bullying and abuse as a child and being socially isolated. As a child I spent most of my time in my own company and as a result I have real issues with allowing people to get close to me (especially in a ‘friend’ way) I just feel crowded most of the time. I do have a couple of friends who I see and speak to every few weeks but that’s all. I am very family orientated though so am happy spending time with DH and children. But I do sometimes miss just having someone to chat to. That’s why I come on here too lol 😊
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I’m in the same boat, I work 7 days a week and my family live close but other than dh and my boys I don’t generally see or speak to anyone
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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:40 PM  
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I’m one of those who had a big family and lots of friends. My parents died so my family broke apart, I got divorced and found a new partner so my friends all changed... I have a few now but it’s not like it was.
I’m often glad about it because life feels a lighter burden, so occasionally I miss a friend to chat to.
Life has funny ways!
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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:41 PM  
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If it makes you feel better my best friends are now my work colleagues. That’s life some times... I have everything I need and sometimes you all just grow apart. I’m lucky in the fact when I do see my older friends it’s as if our last convo was yesterday but we’d never purposely go out of our way to see or make plans with each other.
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Old 16 Jul 19, 09:42 PM  
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Originally Posted by Princess Ariel View Post
This. I don’t really have many friends and never really have, due to bullying and abuse as a child and being socially isolated. As a child I spent most of my time in my own company and as a result I have real issues with allowing people to get close to me (especially in a ‘friend’ way) I just feel crowded most of the time. I do have a couple of friends who I see and speak to every few weeks but that’s all. I am very family orientated though so am happy spending time with DH and children. But I do sometimes miss just having someone to chat to. That’s why I come on here too lol 😊
It is sad that childhood experiences can affect us so many years later 😔 . I completely understand what you mean about feeling crowded, if I am at a social gathering although I look perfectly happy and chat to people I actually feel crowded and very uncomfortable.

I’m very happy with how I live my life though. My children and husband have been my life and I’ve never felt as if I’m missing out by not having a large circle of friends. I do enjoy chatting on here regularly though 😀
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