Notices
General Chat This forum is for general topics and chat type threads.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:25 PM  
Link to this Post
#11
smithlane
Thread Starter
VIP Dibber
 
smithlane's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 15
Mobile

Thanks all. Such a shame the actions of a few ruin it for others
__________________
All my previous reports can be found HERE

IG - alicialanesmith
smithlane is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:29 PM  
Link to this Post
#12
smithlane
Thread Starter
VIP Dibber
 
smithlane's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 15
Originally Posted by Omega1 View Post
Yes, it’s not easy, but it’s the offenders who should be punished (banned/prosecuted) not the good kids who behave themselves ie the majority. I’m happy with a restricted access policy eg 5 out, 5 in - but that needs policing and stores don’t want to resource that so go for the cheaper, unfair, option.
Hopefully the good kids will remember how they were targeted and banned by some stores when they have greater spending power in the future.
See this is what I think should happen. They must know who these children are so why not ban them not everyone. Or even like I said in my OP, don’t allow big groups in. In the newsagents by their old school they had a policy of only 3 school aged children in at a time.
By banning everyone it’s not actually punishing these kids as they’ll just go and terrorise the next store.

Edited at 12:31 PM.
smithlane is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:36 PM  
Link to this Post
#13
Pumpkin Pie
Imagineer
 
Join Date: Sep 15
Different scenario but years ago my son and his friend went into the local Tesco to buy a case of beer for a weekend away and were refused as they did not have any proof of ID on them (they were 20/21 at the time). This was fair enough and I don’t have a problem with that at all but when they went back with their passports the security must have recognised them and they were grabbed from behind and forcibly removed from the store like criminals. My son (who is the least likely trouble maker you are ever likely to meet) tried to explain but they wouldn’t listen and were thrown out in front of all the other shoppers.

I complained to the manager but they didn’t want to know and didn’t apologise. Never used that store again.

It’s wrong that these companies treat innocent people this way.
Pumpkin Pie is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:37 PM  
Link to this Post
#14
400ixl
Imagineer
 
Join Date: Mar 12
Mobile

Big assumption they know which individual child is involved. They may have caught one or two but won't know all of them.

Also, how do they keep just those out, it's not like they can put their photos anywhere as a reminder as that would break gdpr.

Also they have to consider staff safety. If they had suffered verbal or physical abuse they have to consider this as well.

Not an easy situation to manage unfortunately.

Technology can be used but none of the UK grocery retailers are that advanced yet as it is a big investment.
400ixl is offline Boy Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:38 PM  
Link to this Post
#15
klr15
Imagineer
 
klr15's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 16

klr15's Reviews
Hotel Reviews: 2
Restaurant Reviews: 7
Mobile

Originally Posted by Omega1 View Post
Yes, it’s not easy, but it’s the offenders who should be punished (banned/prosecuted) not the good kids who behave themselves ie the majority. I’m happy with a restricted access policy eg 5 out, 5 in - but that needs policing and stores don’t want to resource that so go for the cheaper, unfair, option.
Hopefully the good kids will remember how they were targeted and banned by some stores when they have greater spending power in the future.
Yeah I agree, I remember my friend and I being kicked out of McDonald’s around 12 years ago when we were 12 (there wasn’t a ban in place then for children), we were just sat finishing our drink, minding our own business and a staff member came over and asked us to leave for no apparent reason, it felt incredibly unfair as we never caused trouble.

I used to work in a McDonald’s and a supermarket and I do remember feeling uncomfortable when a group of teens came in, especially as the McDonald’s I was working in was getting bad for trouble at the time, children assaulting staff, destroying the place, having fights ect..

same for the supermarket, teens would come in and ride up and down on the moving walkway on bikes and around the store. They’d smash eggs and flour in the aisles and get abusive with staff and customers, it was frightening at times. So I can see why they’ve put these blanket bans in place, but I agree it is a shame it restricts those who behave themselves.
klr15 is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:39 PM  
Link to this Post
#16
DisneyDaffodil
Imagineer
 
DisneyDaffodil's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 15
Location: South Wales
Mobile

It’s terrible to hear that all teenagers are classed as a problem due to the action of just a few. I understand the reason for banning individuals as supermarket workers etc do get a lot of unnecessary abuse, but I feel they need to identify the students involved, not ban all students. Imagine the uproar if they banned any other particular age group (pensioners for example), students often get treated badly and it really is unfair
DisneyDaffodil is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:50 PM  
Link to this Post
#17
smithlane
Thread Starter
VIP Dibber
 
smithlane's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 15
Mobile

Originally Posted by 400ixl View Post
Big assumption they know which individual child is involved. They may have caught one or two but won't know all of them.

Also, how do they keep just those out, it's not like they can put their photos anywhere as a reminder as that would break gdpr.

Also they have to consider staff safety. If they had suffered verbal or physical abuse they have to consider this as well.

Not an easy situation to manage unfortunately.

Technology can be used but none of the UK grocery retailers are that advanced yet as it is a big investment.
Then surely they ban the ones who they do know.
It’s still a gross assumption that all teens are going to cause trouble especially ones going in on their own.
I’m not saying it’s not a difficult situation to address but in this day and age there must be means. This is Tesco, they’re not short of a bob or two...
__________________
All my previous reports can be found HERE

IG - alicialanesmith
smithlane is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:51 PM  
Link to this Post
#18
smithlane
Thread Starter
VIP Dibber
 
smithlane's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 15
Mobile

Originally Posted by Pumpkin Pie View Post
Different scenario but years ago my son and his friend went into the local Tesco to buy a case of beer for a weekend away and were refused as they did not have any proof of ID on them (they were 20/21 at the time). This was fair enough and I don’t have a problem with that at all but when they went back with their passports the security must have recognised them and they were grabbed from behind and forcibly removed from the store like criminals. My son (who is the least likely trouble maker you are ever likely to meet) tried to explain but they wouldn’t listen and were thrown out in front of all the other shoppers.

I complained to the manager but they didn’t want to know and didn’t apologise. Never used that store again.

It’s wrong that these companies treat innocent people this way.
That’s terrible! No wonder you haven’t used it since
__________________
All my previous reports can be found HERE

IG - alicialanesmith
smithlane is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 12:52 PM  
Link to this Post
#19
Omega1
Imagineer
 
Join Date: Jan 08
Originally Posted by DisneyDaffodil View Post
It’s terrible to hear that all teenagers are classed as a problem due to the action of just a few. I understand the reason for banning individuals as supermarket workers etc do get a lot of unnecessary abuse, but I feel they need to identify the students involved, not ban all students. Imagine the uproar if they banned any other particular age group (pensioners for example), students often get treated badly and it really is unfair
I agree - it’s a moral dilemma. Imagine if an ethic group was banned because of the sins of a few. There would be outrage, and rightly so.
Omega1 is offline Boy Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Old 29 Jan 20, 01:09 PM  
Link to this Post
#20
DisneyDaffodil
Imagineer
 
DisneyDaffodil's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 15
Location: South Wales
Mobile

Originally Posted by Pumpkin Pie View Post
Different scenario but years ago my son and his friend went into the local Tesco to buy a case of beer for a weekend away and were refused as they did not have any proof of ID on them (they were 20/21 at the time). This was fair enough and I don’t have a problem with that at all but when they went back with their passports the security must have recognised them and they were grabbed from behind and forcibly removed from the store like criminals. My son (who is the least likely trouble maker you are ever likely to meet) tried to explain but they wouldn’t listen and were thrown out in front of all the other shoppers.

I complained to the manager but they didn’t want to know and didn’t apologise. Never used that store again.

It’s wrong that these companies treat innocent people this way.
The exact thing happened to our son in Tesco. He looks very young for his age and was actually 25 and was refused to be served with beer. He was very polite and left, returning later with ID. When he went to the checkout, the supervisor called over security and told my son to leave the store. He felt so embarrassed by this as he’s a quiet lad and this drew a lot of unnecessary attention. I did suggest he complained but he just didn’t want any more fuss which is understandable. It’s not good enough though, all customers should be treated fairly
DisneyDaffodil is offline Girl Mouse Click to view Members Trip Plans Add Member to Ignore List
Reply


Forum Jump


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 05:41 AM.


Powered by vBulletin - Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
DIBB Savings
AttractionTickets.com

Get £10 off each Disney Ticket with the code ATDIBB10

Get up to £50 off per room at Disney or Universal with the code DIBBHOTELS


theDIBB Blog
Guests can book their 2025 Hotel and Ticket package early to enjoy Free Dining &... Read More »
The iconic 1900 Park Fare restaurant is opening its doors once again at Disney’s Grand... Read More »
One of the the five worlds found in Epic Universe, How to Train Your Dragon... Read More »


theDIBB Menu


Exchange Rates
US Dollar Rates
ASDA  $1.2088
CaxtonFX  $1.2145
Covent Garden FX  $1.2378
FAIRFX  $1.2092
John Lewis  $1.2114
M&S  $1.1904
Post Office  $1.1885
Sainsburys  $1.2066
TESCO  $1.2076
Travelex  $1.2086
Updated: 05:30 24/04/2024
Euro Rates
ASDA  €1.1353
CaxtonFX  €1.1344
Covent Garden FX  €1.1452
FAIRFX  €1.1335
John Lewis  €1.1379
M&S  €1.1186
Post Office  €1.1169
Sainsburys  €1.1335
TESCO  €1.1343
Travelex  €1.1352
Updated: 05:30 24/04/2024

DIBB Premium Membership
Did you know you can help support theDIBB with Premium Membership?

Check out this link for more information and benefits, such as...

"No adverts on theDIBB Forums"

Upgrade Now



X