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Old 4 Oct 21, 08:05 PM  
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You are the only one who knows but I think youíve probably read it right though and heís cooling things.
If you donít get a response donít play games - you are worth more than that. Iíve never got quite got the playing it cool/ holding back thing. If you like someone then let them know - if they donít feel the same then itís truly their loss.
Just text and say that youíve got the feeling that heís not on the same page and make sure youíre the one that walks away as such. Honestly- know your worth and the right one will come along - trust me - it will happen x
Maybe you are right but for me stepping back a bit is not about playing games it's about giving someone space to make their own choices without being pushed into them. Texting to ask if they are where you are when they have other things going on or just need to think it through feels like to much pressure to me and would make me walk away.

Why does the OP have to be the one who walks away?
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Old 4 Oct 21, 08:08 PM  
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I think if your instinct is telling your that, then. you are probably right. It sounds like you and he are looking for different things right now. You seem to want a committed relationship, him not so much.
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Maybe you are right but for me stepping back a bit is not about playing games it's about giving someone space to make their own choices without being pushed into them. Texting to ask if they are where you are when they have other things going on or just need to think it through feels like to much pressure to me and would make me walk away.

Why does the OP have to be the one who walks away?
We had said on Sat weíd probs see each other Monday so I had just been finding out if we def were when he went silent yesterday (well there were other things in text too) and that was what was in my text tonight since WhatsApp down, just are we meeting up
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Iím kind of on fence what I think because wouldnít you just say outright if didnít want to see someone again not just Ďnot tonightí which suggests maybe another night and ĎIíll explain laterí rather than just saying
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We had said on Sat weíd probs see each other Monday so I had just been finding out if we def were when he went silent yesterday (well there were other things in text too) and that was what was in my text tonight since WhatsApp down, just are we meeting up
There is always email, text/sms or, god forbid, pick up the phone and speak. If he wanted to see you tonight then surely he would use one of those tools ? He is probably busy so like many (ie me) doesnít like being chased too hard.
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End of speculation as heís dumped me and told me he is seeing someone else
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Sounds to me like youíve had a lucky escape - Iím guessing he was confirming the other date before ending it with you.
The right guy is out there - and when you find him heíll make you his priority and want to spend time with you, and will do anything he needs to to make that happen!
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I just feel sick as right up until yesterday we were making plans for Halloween and Xmas Markets, adding to the Netflix series we were watching etc all so normal until he went silent last night
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I just feel sick as right up until yesterday we were making plans for Halloween and Xmas Markets, adding to the Netflix series we were watching etc all so normal until he went silent last night
I am so sorry. He should have been honest from the start. Some people get what they want then move on unfortunately. He is obviously not good enough for you! Take some time to focus on yourself 💕
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Yep! Obvs not commitment phobic if itís anyone but me 🤷
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