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31 May 20, 09:24 AM |
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31 May 20, 09:25 AM |
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I’m not sure so I would get legal advice, but I think if he’s leaves then that stands you in a better position to stay in the home ( him elsewhere as left the home ) until things are sorted out one way or another.
Like I said I’m not 100% nor a legal expert so,I’d definitely get advice, especially as you say you feel threatened by his behaviour. Really hope you get this sorted out .
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31 May 20, 09:49 AM |
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Sounds a good idea to try and get legal advice.
Please ignore if you think it’s not appropriate but as you’ve said you are frightened of seeing him again if might be worth contacting women’s aid womensaid.uk/ or women’s refuge refuge.uk/ for some advice.
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31 May 20, 09:51 AM |
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if you share a family home he cant legally make you leave, you could get the property valued and split it accordingly but I don't believe he has rights to tell you to 'get out' because he does not want you there.
there are contact numbers that you can ring for advice and support if you feel threatened by your husbands current behaviour. definitely secure your safety and financial safety first off that's the most important thing hope you get sorted soon xx
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31 May 20, 09:52 AM |
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I'm so sorry you are frightened to see him and you don't need to answer on a public forum but do you worry he will harm you? Has he hurt you before? There is clearly violence in the home if he fights with your children. How are your children today?
I think you need to think about reporting him and get some advice. I really wouldn't be leaving your home but on the other hand you need to get some advice and keep yourself safe. I've checked the .Gov website and there's loads of links there. gov.uk/report-domestic-abuse This doesn't mean you are leaving him or getting him in trouble, this is helping you both. And getting some professional advice on what your options are. If he does return and you feel threatened in any way please call 999. Hopefully him removing himself for now gives you both some space to think. Take care x |
31 May 20, 09:54 AM |
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First of all, I’m so sorry this has happened and want to send you a hug.
Please don’t be offended, but is there any chance he has engineered this situation. My first thought were ‘maybe’ he has somebody else he’s seeing and this was an opportunity to end your relationship. Do you know where he has gone to for 3 days for definite? Have there been any signs of him maybe seeing anyone that you can recall? I hope I’m wrong, but he certainly would t be the first to do this sort of thing. Lots of love x x |
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31 May 20, 09:57 AM |
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When he said we who does he mean? If your children are adults do they share this opinion or do they think he is being unreasonable in his demands. Will you be able to draw support from them?
If he comes back and you are frightened you must call the police. It is very important that there is official records of this and you are able to get the protection that you may need. |
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31 May 20, 10:06 AM |
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I'd be concentrating on getting to the root cause of the argument with the 'children'.
If alcohol was a fuelling element then have a look at that too, if it's causing a problem then agree to keep everyone off it. Working together as a couple is what will keep you together, taking sides (both of you) with the kids just escalates a situation where someone is in the middle. |
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31 May 20, 10:08 AM |
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Sorry but if my husband told me to leave after HE had an agreement with our children, it would be him that would be finding somewhere else to go. No way would I be walking out of that door. I hope you manage to sort things out x
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31 May 20, 10:50 AM |
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Thankyou all for your support. I am going to ring those numbers that people have kindly posted for me. I’m just feeling very hopeless right now so your support means so much X
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