My dad is really ill...

[NewtoOrlando]

Oh Shona, I’m so sorry to hear this. Please don't feel guilty, I think there’s many people who go through similar who have those thoughts. Huge hugs, and I hope he gets home to the care home to make him as comfortable as possible very soon xx take care xx

[Blue nose]

I'm so sorry to read this and wish you all well.

[joanna23]

Sending all my thoughts to you xx

[Loobylou_82]

Sending you hugs. Stay strong. Sending your mum a hug too.

[daisymae]

So sorry to hear your news. I lost my dad to lung cancer and he too was a big man but very frail by the time he died. I lost my mum in July and miss her terribly. I hope you and your family get to spend as much time as you can with your dad in the coming weeks. Best wishes x

[Ds4ljs]

Unfortunately I understand completely having been in exactly the same situation. Please don’t feel guilty... spend as much time as you can with your Dad. Cherish the good times Sending you love and strength x

[LuvPluto]

So sorry to hear your latest update. Please don’t feel guilty. I think anyone who has been through this will say they have wished their loved one to slip away peacefully in their sleep. I certainly did. Sending you lots of strength and love xx