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Old 3 Jul 19, 11:01 PM  
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RIP Hannah Bharaj

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What a heartbreaking story
I can't imagine what she was going through for it to get so bad
And what a dreadful thing for the parents to witness and not quite be able to get to her in time

When my DD was a day care patient at the Priory in Cheadle , we went a couple of times to that John Lewis . Thankfully I can't picture in my head the coffee shop and the balcony ,

My DD is the same age as Hannah was , it could so easily have been her
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Absolutely tragic 🌹
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So tragic. One of my team at work’s friend has just been admitted to a clinic after being hospitalised with eating disorders. She was due to be sitting her a-levels. Her family feel helpless, understandably. So much pressure on the young these days. RIP Hannah.
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Absolutely devastating. 😢
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Thats just awful, for everyone involved, what is the world coming to?
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Oh god so devasting, just read it. Heartbreaking.
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So tragic my heart goes out to her and her family. I lost my brother when he was 27 due to a similar circumstances its heartbreaking.
I really feel like as a society we have created a world which can be so difficult to live in and their are so many beautiful souls being lost.
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A 19 yr old not too far from where I live walked out in front of a Hgv a few weeks ago , her funeral was last week

Seems she’s been battling anorexia for 5 yrs and had had a few suicide attempts before .

But her family and friends thought she was doing ok , seemed happy and was off to look around universities in the coming weeks .
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Absolutely heartbreaking

I cant imagine her family ever coming to terms with it. My heart goes out to them ❤️
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Ive been having a read of the various reports around Hannah's inquest

theboltonnews/news...lewis-balcony/

bbc/news/uk-englan...ester-48888483

manchestereveningnews.co...t-who-16527867

A few really interesting points
- Really good to see an honest psychiatrist , not hiding from the situation . I don't see why anyone would think that a patient going out of the ward with their parents would think to jump off a balcony right in front of them .
- he says she had the most extreme anorexia she had ever seen. Yet he was on the general ward at the Priory , not the eating disorder ward on the same site . NOtwithstanding what actually happened, which is easier to say with hindsight , but why did he seemingly not do anything to get her on the ward most suited to her ? It appears that when admitted she wasn't at the requisite weight / BMI for admission to the eating disorder ward - surely the Priory must know that weight is only one indicator - those with eating disorders need to be in the right place alongside doctors who know how to treat them
( MY DDs friend is in a similar situation - she is in general ward yet desperately needs to be rehoused into a more suitable ward to assist in )
- Glad to hear that they praised the parents - it's natural as a parent to ' blame ' yourself when these things just strike whoever/wherever
- the lack of handover notes is extremely worrying . My DD moved from one Priory to another , they clearly had barely spoken as she was immediately put on a lower diet at the new site ,which in one swift movement undid a lot of the work done by the first site .

Anyone with a mental health disorder deserves a proper handover of info - by the nature of their illness they won't in all cases help themselves , and in this case with tragic consequences
I can't imagine how difficult running a mental health ward is, but please at least get the basics right

I presume the improved ' transitional' resources references not putting vulnerable young people in mixed wards of much older patients. this is desperately needed. these people need to relate to their surroundings .

I find it hard that the ward was described as ' disturbing' - yes the patients are difficult , but at least create an environment that is conducive to mental health improvement

Sorry for waffling on
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