What do you this sentence means - cancelled date

[wanye]

are you sure theres anything to read into it at all? whatsapp was down most of last night, so unread statuses and lack of messages are probably down to that, rather than him suddenly avoiding you or whatever...

hth

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Originally Posted by Pink_Fairy_Dust

End of speculation as he’s dumped me and told me he is seeing someone else

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screw that dude, you can do better

[Pink_Fairy_Dust]

I know I should feel I can do better but he was a really nice guy... and ticked almost everything I wanted to a tee! And it was so out of the blue given how much we were planning just on Saturday... all I can think of is maybe he has just met her Sunday the first time but if so then he has passed me up for someone he has only been on one date with...

[snowbelle]

Aw PFD I am sorry ,
It will hurt at the moment and there will be dozens of what’s ifs.
I met someone years ago OLD he was funny , sharp , attractive and we got on like a house on fire .
He told me he was going to see his daughter as she needed some work done on her house and not too worry he would be busy.
We had a great day on the Saturday I waved him off and by the Thursday he had apparently met someone in the street a perfectly random stranger and it was love at first sight .
The truth was more like he had been chatting to her and she was a better option than me , it did hurt as I thought we were good together.
Two years letter a message popped up on line .. “ Hi how are you , can we pick up where we left off”
My reply “ are you serious, nope I have met someone else , not interested “
Take your time but you will need to move on.

[Pink_Fairy_Dust]

That sounds about it. I just keep thinking something I must have done put him off on Sat as it was all positive until next night. I just still feel dazed

[NewtoOrlando]

Originally Posted by Pink_Fairy_Dust

I know I should feel I can do better but he was a really nice guy... and ticked almost everything I wanted to a tee! And it was so out of the blue given how much we were planning just on Saturday... all I can think of is maybe he has just met her Sunday the first time but if so then he has passed me up for someone he has only been on one date with...

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He can’t have been that nice a guy if he’s dumped you and seeing someone else! You are well rid my love, least you’re not wasting any more time on him!

[OutbackAddict]

Originally Posted by Pink_Fairy_Dust

That sounds about it. I just keep thinking something I must have done put him off on Sat as it was all positive until next night. I just still feel dazed

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I hope this doesn't come across too harsh but you very much sound like you are trying to blame yourself for his failings: It must have been something you said etc etc and that very much seems to be the tone of your comments throughout this whole thread, he didn't want commitment so you tiptoed round him all the time. I didn't hear anywhere what you wanted, it was all what made him happy !.

Don't beat yourself up so much, learn to love yourself a little more, have the confidence that you're so much better than jerks like that and you might be surprised how happy you can be and what sort of person you might meet in the future without having to try too hard

[Princess Alison]

I've just read this thread and I must agree with the others, Pink Fairy Dust, this guy sounds just awful. The fact he was able to do what he was doing, while giving off such a pleasant and nice vibe with you, illustrates just how devious he might turn out to be. Id pity this other woman, who probably has no clue what was going on.

I suppose on the very best case, we can hope that he did truly like you both, and simply had to decide.

It's never nice being dumped, but you clearly have a lot of fans on here to help you through and we are all rooting for you.

Time for some me time with a face mask, wine and ice cream?

[bonnies mum]

Originally Posted by Pink_Fairy_Dust

That sounds about it. I just keep thinking something I must have done put him off on Sat as it was all positive until next night. I just still feel dazed

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Please do not take the blame- thinking YOU did something wrong.
He is the one who was deceitful and untruthful.
You are well shot of him as you deserve a lot better.

[Pink_Fairy_Dust]

I’m really trying not to blame myself but on Sat he was even saying stuff like oh I don’t mind opening the wine you can finish it when you’re round next, don’t worry we will catch up on some of that series next time, yeah it would be good if you bring some lateral flows round (so had them in if required to prove covid free for somewhere we were going - I have loads from work) so mundane stuff but all just normal as pie that we would be seeing each other again. With the wine flowing I probs was a bit more emotional than usual say when he didn’t want me to sleepover and kept saying oh I’ll get a taxi and refusing a lift (but then I took one of course). I just think maybe I’d still be with him if I’d come across more easygoing and been more ok with the fact we weren’t defined in what we were…. I never said I was bothered but maybe the pushing to stay over thing made him think oh dear she’s too into me for this point. I just think if I’d played it cooler I’d still be seeing him…. I mean all he said was he was seeing someone on his text and really without defining what you are you have to assume that could be case…

Even wondering if seeing someone isn’t even true and just means you’re too full on but then he could have just said that and blocked me in same way he said the other sentence right and you wouldn’t want to make yourself out the bad guy if you aren’t

[EssexSue]

Originally Posted by Pink_Fairy_Dust

I’m really trying not to blame myself but on Sat he was even saying stuff like oh I don’t mind opening the wine you can finish it when you’re round next, don’t worry we will catch up on some of that series next time, yeah it would be good if you bring some lateral flows round (so had them in if required to prove covid free for somewhere we were going - I have loads from work) so mundane stuff but all just normal as pie that we would be seeing each other again. With the wine flowing I probs was a bit more emotional than usual say when he didn’t want me to sleepover and kept saying oh I’ll get a taxi and refusing a lift (but then I took one of course). I just think maybe I’d still be with him if I’d come across more easygoing and been more ok with the fact we weren’t defined in what we were…. I never said I was bothered but maybe the pushing to stay over thing made him think oh dear she’s too into me for this point. I just think if I’d played it cooler I’d still be seeing him…. I mean all he said was he was seeing someone on his text and really without defining what you are you have to assume that could be case…

Even wondering if seeing someone isn’t even true and just means you’re too full on but then he could have just said that and blocked me in same way he said the other sentence right and you wouldn’t want to make yourself out the bad guy if you aren’t

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Sounds very flaky to me. You are well rid, I know it hurts now but take it from us who are on your side you have had a lucky escape!