Disabled access hotels Gatwick south

[Scooter McDuck]

Hi all, this is going to sound crazy I’m sure, but I’m really struggling to find a hotel room with disabled accessibility to accommodate a family of 4 at Gatwick south terminal. This is our first time travelling with me profoundly disabled, also have spent a vast number of years flying out of north with BA, so I’m new to south offerings and also how to search and what to search for when looking for disabled facilities, but i had assumed they would come up as option or a flag to open up such rooms, try as I might I don’t see any option on the Hilton site for disabled rooms? The bloc hotel have already said they can’t accommodate me we really won’t manage buses etc so needs to be as close as poss. Any ideas? My brain is mush these days, once upon a time I’d have solved all this in my sleep! Thanking you all very much.