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23 Oct 18, 04:46 PM |
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I'm so sorry to hear of your dilemma but also applaud your intention to make good memories with your family. Having worked in mental health/elderly care I would say if you have concerns it is worth asking his GP & considering the following 1)how long has he been diagnosed...there is a specific trajectory of decline in alzheimers but other factors/aspects of his health may impact on this 2)is he insureable. For me, the issues of the journey, the jetlag, the "busyness" of USA & the associated costs of healthcare problems once in the US would make me nervous of taking someone with dementia on this sort of holiday. Stress(even "good"stress associated with going on hols) can make symptoms appear much worse & if your family want him in his best state of mind you may want to consider a nice relaxed family holiday closer to home. What trips did he do as a youngster with his parents or as a young married man with you when u were a child? It can be lovely to trigger memories of good family times that you shared when you were a child.
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23 Oct 18, 10:49 PM |
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This sums up how my father in law was on a long weekend away in the UK
He got very anxious and was constantly getting his things/ trying to wander off, as he wanted to go home This led to MIL getting upset and snapping at him for ' ruining it for everyone ', he was then upset as he couldn't fathom out what he had done wrong and they both ended up in tears. After the break away SIL ( whose idea it was) said that in hindsight she'd probably booked it as she wanted it to happen rather than viewing it from her Dads perspective Maybe try a long weekend/ few days away in the UK to see how everyone copes . Maybe short flight to ?Scotland to see how he manages Not sure which airport you are flying from but some do lanyards to identify people which hidden conditions which may be useful Again depending on which airport you are flying from it may be worth booking fast track security screening to speed up the process and request special assistance with the airline Also as others have said go through travel insurance with a fine tooth comb. Good luck with whatever you decide It's such a horrible condition, my Dad had vascular dementia and deteriorated in quite significant steps Sending hugs xxxx |
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24 Oct 18, 06:17 AM |
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It’s such a special place for a family holiday but, stating the obvious it’s also a very long journey to a lot of new experiences. You obviously have concerns given that you brought it forward and it seems your Mum also has concerns.
In your position I think I would gather facts. Medical advice from your Dad’s GP or specialist as to his probable fitness to travel. Travel insurance - you need a watertight policy and make sure that the medical screening aspect for your Dad is comprehensive. You can get a policy for the group, or linked policies or be prepared to take the financial hit. Eg someone is taken ill and you have to stay on past the end of the holiday. Stay flexible for as long as possible as regards your Dad and Mum on this holiday. Have a plan B - worst case alternative holiday or just flexibility when you are there. Good luck. |
24 Oct 18, 07:38 AM |
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Another thought
Have you considered a shorter break to Disneyland Paris, we Dad manage a train journey/ shorter flight easier |
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24 Oct 18, 10:16 AM |
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Thanks you for all the replies, lots to think about.
I am going to speak with my dads Mental Health specialist today and see what she thinks. I have also looked at getting him a "Hidden Illness badge" for example "I have Alzheimers - please be patient" as it might help others understand why he is so slow and gets a little confused sometimes. We went to Tenerife last year with my parents and my dad was great, he loves flying and he loves watching films so I think he could be ok with the long haul flight with a good choice of films. We have had no incidents of my dad getting upset or disorientated yet, however as has already been said I know May is a while away and we will need to continue to review the situation. |
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25 Oct 18, 06:46 PM |
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Both my Dad and my MIL have different forms of dementia. My Dad has had it for 5 years and he is deteriorating slowly, my MIL was diagnosed last year and in the last 7 weeks has deteriorated rapidly. She sees people, can't dress properly, has accidents, wanders in her sleep etc etc. It would be impossible to take her anywhere, even a visit to the shops is very stressful, my Dad on the other hand would be 'manageable'. I just wanted to say that each case is so different, but like others have said, take all precautions just in case there is a sudden rapid decline.
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25 Oct 18, 07:31 PM |
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Can I ask, what made your Mother ask ? Do you think your Dad could be doing things that you haven’t witnessed, and your Mum doesn’t know how to tell you, or want to let you down ?
Is he OK being left by himself at home? Would you be able to leave him in a strange villa with your Mum, or would he become distressed that he couldn’t find anything ? After watching my late father struggle with Alzheimer’s for 5 years, I have to admit I wouldn’t have taken him with my family to Disney. I would have gone on weekends away with him, then if he went into meltdown, it would be easy to get home, and back to familiar surroundings. Obviously, I am looking at worse case scenario, it’s such a horrible disease, and everyone is different. I send you my very best wishes, |
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26 Oct 18, 11:41 AM |
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I think my mum asked because he is so slow and quiet now. There hasn’t been any instances of him getting lost or not recognising people etc.
At the moment he can still be left alone for short periods of time.
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