Online dating dilemma - landed up speaking to two guys by accident

[Gull]

Have you read all the replies through ? Why are you still willing to meet up with both of them ? Stop torturing yourself and move on, as most of the other posters have said too. If we can all see that somethings not right, and you can’t, take a step back and try and see it from the outside as if you were a friend of someone in your position, see if that would change your mind. If not, then good luck.

[Taffy1959]

Quite frankly I think you’re flogging a dead horse they’re both stringing you along and you’re letting them do it.
Block them both put it down to experience move on and stop torturing yourself you deserve better.
I’m sorry to be so blunt but everyone else can see what’s happening but you don’t appear to want to see it.

[Tinks2014]

Originally Posted by Pink_Fairy_Dust

Wow scary, no one has ever asked me for money! I'd def never do anything like that - to be honest my dilemma is I would be willing to meet both of them and see what happens (somewhere public obviously) and I hadn't intended to speak to two people it just landed up happening because the first guy went silent a few times... I feel guilty about a lot in life, I'm one of those people haha...

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They may not have asked you yet. That’s what they do take time reel you in and reel you out. Have you watched cat fish ? If not I suggest you do. Please don’t be one of those that waste so much time on these people who you will never get to meet . Some people have been be strung along for years . You say about speaking to two people I bet they are not just talking to you either.

[marypoppins38]

If you want closure then be incredibly upfront and ask them why they message you the way they do and have pics with the girlfriend on FB. Then please, do yourself a favour, block the pair of them and get out and meet someone for real when things open up. I promise you will be saving yourself a whole world of upset. They know they can just drop you and then pick up where they left off and I bet his girlfriend/wife doesn't know you are speaking with him. He may even have kids that he forgot to tell you about.