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22 Jan 17, 10:36 PM |
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When I met my dh, he started saving a little every month for my two children to get them a car at 18 as his grandfather had done this for Him(they were five and eight when we met) nothing special, just a run around between £500 and £850. My DD didn't get a car at 18 as she had been so vile. At the time ds deserved his, but he paid for his own insurance and driving lessons. It was a helping hand as opposed to a facilitating a life style, I should have explained myself a little more, apologies.
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22 Jan 17, 10:41 PM |
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Well what would have happened if the husband or mum couldn't have picked her up for some reason? She probably knew that the buses didn't run on a Sunday and even if she didn't, she should have checked. she's a grown adult and could have a found way home for herself or she could have stayed at the boyfriends for another night.
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22 Jan 17, 10:44 PM |
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Agree with this entirely , I had the same problem with my hubby till I flipped out and said he must step in as I'm going to have a flipping breakdown otherwise . Once we were united and made some changes and he steps in more , things got better .
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22 Jan 17, 10:45 PM |
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I'm assuming she would just spend a night at her boyfriends? If so I wouldn't have went to get her.
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22 Jan 17, 10:46 PM |
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22 Jan 17, 11:07 PM |
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following with interest
is she leaving at the end of the month? ds tried the pick me up card a few times last time I put my foot down and made him walk he hasnt bothered again unless hes got a bus fare! |
22 Jan 17, 11:09 PM |
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She is playing you, i wouldn't be surprised if she turns it around and blames you for taking her car away, she knows you won't leave her stranded .i hope your DH gives her what for when he picks her up. You both need to lay the law down now otherwise her behaviour will continue and will just get worse.
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23 Jan 17, 12:20 AM |
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So did you text her on Boxing Day and say that she has to move out by the end of this month but you won't follow through? If that's the situation then its an idle threat, which she knows, and so will take no notice of you over anything.
Or are you intending to get her to go no matter what sometime in the next two weeks maximum?
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23 Jan 17, 02:06 PM |
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Her boyfriend should at the least have gotten her a taxi and gone with her
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23 Jan 17, 03:25 PM |
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honestly, I am 19 and even I will admit she needs the biggest kick up the backside! how awful is it that she thinks that she can disrespect you both in such ways! not once am I saying that at times I wasn't hard work because me and my mother would get into some disagreements but I would never do what she has done! drugs are a no go I don't care if they are fun or cheaper than drinking, a lot of my friends do it and I have always refused as it's vile! my sister was a lot of hard work and I watched the same battles you are having (shes four years older than me) and countless times she my mother made her move out until she learnt respect and manners. She moved out at 17 and ever since she realised how hard it is to stand on her own two feet her and my mother get along amazing.
I don't agree with some of your comments saying that my generation ask for everything to be handed to us because I bloody damn work hard and I drive a new car and own my own house, nothing was handed to me on a silver platter? don't get me wrong my mother spoilt me rotten but I never was ungrateful for it. she is taking the mickey out of you and you are letting her by being a push over. I will tell you honestly, if she can take a run at you and you let her, oh boy she will keep doing it. so cut the funding, take anything you have paid for and ask her leave and when she goes to bag up all the expensive things, take them off her unless SHE paid for them. she sure as hell will throw a tantrum but its your money not hers. when it comes to your son, don't let him get away with things because you think he has autism, that's an excuse for him acting like a child. Not a chance would that happen in my family, yes you have something that is hard and restrictive but you get yourself together and you carry on. he doesn't pay, he doesn't eat your food, or shower or any of it. nothing. you and your husband need to put your foot down and show them not only do you deserve respect but you fully demand it if they are going to live in your house and be in your life. God, I would have kicked their behinds a long time a go, the longer it goes on the worst it gets.
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