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20 Jun 17, 03:07 PM
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 Join Date: Aug 14
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he's imo taking a lend of you expecting you to pay for his & sons holiday from what im reading...
hes a grown man with children and i assume a job mortgage/rent etc etc he needs to man up & pay his way, if he cant then he surely isnt expecting you to pay & its upto him to tell his boy they wont be going if that is the case... you need to get him telt ! |
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20 Jun 17, 03:13 PM
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Join Date: May 08
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You know you have to sit down and have the talk, sort it out now so if he cant afford it he can back out. You dont want to go and feel resentful, plus its not fair in you! Xx
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20 Jun 17, 09:50 PM
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Join Date: Sep 08
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I'm sorry if this is speaking out of turn but I'd be concerned if I couldn't discuss money with my other half. If you have a relationship close enough to go on holiday together I'd just come right out and say, "so your share of the holiday is £X and you've paid £Y so you still owe £Z". If the answer is "I can't afford it" then to me the conversation is much bigger than whether you go on holiday together or not.
My sister and I go on holiday together and I usually book and pay so I just say to her how much, check she's happy and then when it's due I say "I need your share for car/flight/hotel". |
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20 Jun 17, 09:54 PM
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Trying for More Ears
 Join Date: Mar 17
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How did the talk go lovely?
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20 Jun 17, 09:59 PM
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VIP Dibber
Join Date: Apr 12
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Hoping things went OK for you, I hope you feel better after the talk. Whatever way it goes you will know where you stand.
Thinking of you as I know it will be difficult x
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20 Jun 17, 10:19 PM
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Apprentice Imagineer
 Join Date: Apr 13
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Hope all went ok !
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20 Jun 17, 11:25 PM
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slightly serious Dibber
 Join Date: Aug 15
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Good luck hope he listens and pays his share
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20 Jun 17, 11:59 PM
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Apprentice Imagineer
Join Date: Apr 06
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Good luck I hope the talk went well and you're sorted x
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21 Jun 17, 12:04 AM
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Imagineer
Join Date: Feb 16
Location: Essex
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Hope it went ok
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21 Jun 17, 08:03 AM
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slightly serious Dibber
Join Date: May 09
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I also think that you need a frank discussion about exactly how much he owes towards it and when is it due. Only then will you know where you stand. No payment, no holiday. As a side note, it sounds like you have been together for a while ( at least a year). If I was in a long term relationship with someone I would expect to split it straight down the middle as you are all a 'family' but maybe I'm alone in this
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